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Nancy Watling

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Funeral Service on Tues., 1/31/2012 at 10:30 am at the First United Methodist Church, Turlock. Burial at a later date in Springfield, Missouri »

January 1925 - January 2012

The daughter of Erma A. Hollingsworth and Eli M. Hasler, Nancy was born in Springfield, Missouri.  She died early Thursday morning at Emanuel Medical Center in Turlock.

She graduated with honors from Drury College in 1946, having majored in Home Economics, and serving as Departmental Assistant. She was President of her sorority, Zeta Tau Alpha, and a member of the women’s honor society, SKIFF.   Nancy was first employed in the business office of the Bell Telephone Company, but her interest in music shortly led her to a career in education—first as a junior high school teacher, later a mix of college level and high school assignments.  She taught at Grace Davis High School in Modesto for over twenty years. When she retired in 1990, she held the position of Fine Arts Chairman.  In addition to her teaching responsibilities, she served as principal flute in the Modesto Symphony Orchestra.  Nancy and the late Faye Gartin were responsible for the organization and development of the Modesto Symphony Youth Orchestra in the mid-1970s.

A long-time member of the National Association for Music Education (MENC), Nancy was also interested in international music education and became an active member of the International Society for Music Education (ISME).  She presented research papers at ISME conferences in Salzburg and Tokyo.  With the strong support of colleagues in New Jersey, New York, Colorado and Ohio, she reinstituted the National High School Honors Orchestra.  One hundred fifty students (at least two from every state) were chosen to perform for the biennial MENC conferences. She served as Executive Director of the Honors Orchestra for over ten years and—like the other music teachers who helped manage the program—did it voluntarily. She was fondly referred to by her staff as “Mother Superior.”  Nancy and the orchestra were especially proud to perform for ISME in Helsinki, Finland, in 1990.

Nancy’s leadership in the Methodist church culminated in her election as President of the California/Nevada Conference United Methodist Women.  She served two terms in that office. Deeply committed to the idea of mission—and the importance of support for national and international concerns—Nancy was a long-time member of MFSA—the Methodist Federation for Social Action—and worked diligently to encourage financial support for UMCOR—the United Methodist Committee on Relief.   

She enjoyed membership in the Turlock Tuesday Reading Club, supported the Community Concert Association, and loved attending the summer performance series at the Santa Fe Opera, Aspen Music Festival and Carmel Bach Festival. She was a 63-year member of P.E.O.

Nancy is survived by her husband of 64 years, Tom, and their three children: Susanna (Robert Verkuyl), Tom, Jr. (Diane), and Jack (Denice). There are three grandchildren: Jaclyn, Matthew, and Haley.

The family is most appreciative of the care and compassion of the Emanuel nursing staff, for the love and support of her caregiver, Maria Gonsalves, and the dedication of her physicians, Dr. Mark Davenport and Dr. Lin Ma.

A funeral service is planned for 10:30 am, Tuesday, Jan. 31, at the First United Methodist Church, 1660 Arbor Way, in Turlock. Burial will take place at a later date in Springfield, Missouri.

Suggested memorials would include Emanuel Medical Center, UMW (United Methodist Women)—in care of the Turlock Methodist Church, or some favorite charity.

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Don Grishaw
28-Jan-2012 07:46 AM

I am very sorry for your loss. Nancy was a magnificent, energetic person who gave her all her to her many endeavors. I met Nancy soon after I arrived in Turlock in 1982 at the Modesto Symphony where I have played in the violin section ever since. We played
together in a small ensemble organized by the Kidwells and traveled all over the county to play for weddings and receptions. Nancy was a fabulous flutist and I treasure my memories of music making with her. May the Lord Bless Nancy and all of her family. Sincerely,
Don Grishaw

Linda Goodwin
29-Jan-2012 10:49 AM

Tom and family. Nancy was an amazing human spirit with lots of spunk shining through this past year that I was fortunate to know her. The 3 girls across the street wish you all peace and courage for enormous loss you are dealing with. May all those beautiful
memories help see you through...

Marilyn Myers
29-Jan-2012 10:58 AM

So deeply sorry for your loss. While her passing will create a void in your lives I know you can all fill it with happy memories. She touched so many throughout her life. She didn't simply exist, she excelled.

John and Marlene Hendrickson
29-Jan-2012 11:24 AM

Fond memories of a wonderful lady. Our condolences to Tom and the family

RJ Moriconi
29-Jan-2012 12:26 PM

My very sincere sympathy to Tom and family. Nancy was such a great music maker, teacher, and organizer. Thanks to her, many excellent music goals were achieved at Davis High, within Stanislaus County, and with the Modesto Symphony. She was also an active
PDKer. As well,I really appreciated the many talks we had about EVERYTHING in the world, near and far. Brava! Nancy. RJ Moriconi

Pastor Oscar Escamilla
30-Jan-2012 08:29 AM

We remember Nancy as a gracious and intelligent lady who was much esteemed and a very able leader in the United Methodist Church and as UMW President in the conference. As a devout Christian, she was deeply dedicated to human justice and betterment of
lives. Her soul is eternally at peace with God. Our thoughts and prayers are with Tom and family. Pastor Oscar & Inita Escamilla

Margaret Garms
30-Jan-2012 09:17 AM

My mother, George Ann (Walters) Garms, also from Springfield, Missouri, and also a flute player, loved Nancy dearly for nearly all of their lives. She misses her deeply and gives all her love and sympathy to Tom and the rest of the family. We are both
hoping to be there on Tuesday.

Chris Ossont
30-Jan-2012 02:12 PM

Daughter Susanna is a wonderful P.E.O. sister here in New Hartford, NY. What a talented and giving person her Mother was! She made so many important contributions. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Janice Young
30-Jan-2012 07:46 PM

Susanna is a wonderful sister in our P.E.O. chapter. Reflects on her family. What a talented lady your Mother was. Will be thinking of you all tomorrow.Janice Young

Kerstin Soykan
31-Jan-2012 06:02 PM

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Martha Lacell
01-Feb-2012 06:39 AM

My love and sympathy to you Susanna and to your family.

Kathleen Jarrett
01-Feb-2012 12:56 PM

Susanna and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I am in P.E.O. with Susanna, and love the organization. I'm sure your mother was just wonderful. We think Susanna is. With sympathy, Kathleen Jarrett, P.E.O. Chapter BW, Utica, NY

Diann de Graaf Fugate
01-Feb-2012 07:10 PM

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. God Bless, Diann de Graaf Fugate and family

carol vitzthum alexander
05-Feb-2012 05:56 PM

Former student at Springfield Senior High School in early 50's. Awesome teacher. Appreciative of her example.

Jack & Wilda Vaughan
06-Feb-2012 08:18 AM

Sorry to learn of Nancy's death. Thanks for putting the "beautiful tribute of her life" in our local newspaper. What a lady - that got involved in living life to its fullest, by making it special for others, too. We remember her mom, as church organist
and Nancy & Tom both sang in the choir & on occasion "solo's & duets" at South Street Christian Church in Springfield, Mo. That has been 50+ years go. We recognized the young picture. Not many of us left "old timers" are still at South Street that can remember
the old church.

tom watling
07-Feb-2012 05:52 PM

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Nashville Musicians Association, AFM Local 257
09-Feb-2012 10:30 AM

On behalf of the Nashville Musicians Association, AFM Local 257, I would like to extend our love and sincerest sympathies to Tom, Mrs. Watling’s children, family and friends. Nancy was a longtime member of The American Federation of Musicians(AFM). From
reading her obituary and comments from her friends, we wish we would have had the chance to have known Nancy…sounds like she was an amazing woman, with a beautiful spirit, who touched many lives. We will continue to keep Mrs. Watling, her husband Tom, her
children, family and friends in our thoughts, hearts and prayers.

Archie Jordan
13-Feb-2012 07:17 AM

My prayers are with the family of Nancy. I didn't have the privilege of knowing her, but by reading about her, I can see she was a servant to the people and shared her talent. God bless you all. Sincerely, Archie Jordan

Eloise Haldeman
19-Feb-2012 07:51 PM

Nancy was a shining light to music educators and she wouldn't settle for a dim light! Her diligence, honesty and frankness were so refreshing! I truly admired her, as a music educator, as a cook & hostess and for her perspective. She has left inspiring
memories.

Esther McCarthy
21-Feb-2012 08:10 AM

Tom, Susanna & family - So sorry to hear of your loss. May you find peace and joy in remembrance of Nancy's life as your wife and mother. Our sincere condolences to all - Bill & Esther McCarthy