John is survived by his mother Donna Steely of Modesto, Ca, daughters, Jennifer Durling of Modesto, Ca, and Sarah Durling of Arkansas, step-daughter, Dawn Brown of Arkansas, and 4 grandchildren. He also is survived by two sisters Debra McKinnis of Madera, Ca and Laurie Steely of Pahrump, Nv, and many nieces and nephews.
John was an outgoing individual who loved his family and lived with and cared for his mother. He loved to go fishing and camping. He also loved his dogs very much. He will be missed by us all.
Services are pending at this time.
4 Condolences for John V. Durling
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Savannah Brown says
November 15, 2025 at 12:01 pmHe was my grandpa, but felt more like a father to me. He was such an amazing guy who had many hobbies, and had a very caring heart. He will be forever missed. I love you papa, you’ll forever be in my heart as long as I live.
Laurie Steely says
November 15, 2025 at 9:49 amBrother, I can’t imagine a world without you. You were taken too soon. You were such a good brother to me and you lived life on your own terms and I am older now and respect that. I know you are in good company now with all the loved ones that went before you , I love you so and I will visit you in my heart Johnny Verdell, your little sister Laurie Delaine 💋
Debbie McKinnis says
November 14, 2025 at 7:18 pmCan you understand how much it hurts to loose the one person in your life that you would give your own life for? I will go on because he would want me to, I love you more than anyone knows. Your big Sissy
Christine Young says
November 14, 2025 at 2:48 pmJohnny, I love you very much rest in peace my friend and I will see you very soon.